I'd like to take my wife dancing in NYC. I am looking for a spot with a more mature crowd, and a blend of contemporary dance, hip-hop, and some oldies (80's and up). Any recommendations?

Vero knows her stuff.

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Village Underground below the Fat Black Pussycat on W3rd Street, just a little west of 6th Ave, great band on Wed, Thurs and Fri nights starting around 9pm.

and what about an R&B Motown sound Marea?

Freddy, If you come back to this thread Meara's recommendation is perfect. Matter of fact she turned me onto Fat Cat Pussycat...You'll love it!