Doorman Christmas gifts
Posted by michellekjohnson
Re: Doorman Christmas gifts December 18, 2005 05:34PM |
Registered: 18 years ago Posts: 4 |
What most people say to give is often a vague non-numerical answer: "whatever you feel you should give" or "it depends on your building." I have lived in my co-op for over 5 years, and I still have no idea if I'm giving a suitable amount. Actually, I'm pretty sure I tip adequately, because if you take my tip amount for one of the full-time doormen, and assumed each unit in the building gave the same amount, they would each have $10,000 cash in their pockets (more than I could ever hope to get from my boss!). I know not everyone tips every year and some tip less than me, but I prefer to err on the side of caution and would rather overtip than undertip. I also try and tip consistently year to year. I give a bit more to my super depending on how many things I had him do in my apt, and I give less to the porters and to the part-time doormen. I tip each full-time doorman the same amount. I would only make exceptions if someone were especially good or bad. I think it best to hand out envelopes individually; it is more personable and gives you a chance to shake the guy's hand. And I imagine tips really do vary bldg to bldg: I don't live in a high-luxury building, but the doormen do wear uniforms (though no hat and gloves). I imagine in a snazzier bldg the doormen might expect more if you have a driver, wear fur coats, and have bratty kids. Here's another tip: Save aside a bit of cash each month so at the end of the year you aren't using your own end-of-year bonus to pay for your doormen bonuses. I save more than I should, and donate the rest to my favorite non-profits.
Re: Doorman Christmas gifts December 19, 2005 06:40PM |
Appreciate all the comments, and, I used to live in NYC, so I relate to people getting megabucks if everyone gave! But, now I'm in Northern VA (perhaps similar in income! :-) ) with different issues.
I seem to be about the norm for hairdresser, postal carrier, newspaper folks, etc. But how the heck do you give a gift to your trash/recycler folks (same people here)? Put an envelope in with the recyclables? :-)
The others (newspapers give you an envelope, the postal folks, of course, have the mailbox) are easy, and we don't have 'building' folks. The only other recipient is the trash folks, but how to get it to them?!
Thanks for any ideas!
I seem to be about the norm for hairdresser, postal carrier, newspaper folks, etc. But how the heck do you give a gift to your trash/recycler folks (same people here)? Put an envelope in with the recyclables? :-)
The others (newspapers give you an envelope, the postal folks, of course, have the mailbox) are easy, and we don't have 'building' folks. The only other recipient is the trash folks, but how to get it to them?!
Thanks for any ideas!
Re: Doorman Christmas gifts December 21, 2005 07:26PM |
Re: Doorman Christmas gifts December 21, 2005 10:27PM |
Registered: 18 years ago Posts: 4 |
Re: Doorman Christmas gifts December 22, 2005 12:48PM |
Re: Doorman Christmas gifts December 22, 2005 12:56PM |
Re: Doorman Christmas gifts December 22, 2005 02:36PM |
Re: Doorman Christmas gifts December 22, 2005 02:52PM |
Registered: 18 years ago Posts: 4 |
I agree. It should be an entirely voluntary act. One of my friends rents and even though she has her super do all sorts of things around her apartment, around Christmas she pretty much gives him a thing full of candy. I'm sure he'd prefer cash (wouldn't you?) but for someone short on cash (actually, she's not -- judging by the gifts she got for her family members this year) it is nice to give a thoughtful non-monetary gift. But I also don't think giving tips should be a game of "How low a tip can I get away with?"
Re: Doorman Christmas gifts December 22, 2005 07:18PM |
Re: Doorman Christmas gifts December 23, 2005 09:59PM |
I feel like I am a very generous tipper. I happily give the doormen and the handymen atleast 100 , and much more to the super because he puts in a little extra for me. This year, though, there is so much gossip and tension between the dormman and the tenants, that it makes me not want to tip the this mich as a holiday gift.
I wanted to do a test, to see if they would treat me the same wa. I would give each one 20 dollars and the one that didnt sneer upon the tip, the balence for New Years.
What Do you guys thinK?
I wanted to do a test, to see if they would treat me the same wa. I would give each one 20 dollars and the one that didnt sneer upon the tip, the balence for New Years.
What Do you guys thinK?
Re: Doorman Christmas gifts December 08, 2007 08:16AM |
Help!!-- on the same issue. We live on the upper west side of Manhattan in a nice but not elegant apt building which is now half condos (we have purchased outs). We give$50 to each doorman and service worker, and $75 to the super. I heard last night that friends in a similar setup give their doormen and others $100 each. We like the staff here and don't want to be stingy but have lots of expenses. Is $100 now the norm? or?
Thanks for all responses.
Thanks for all responses.
Re: Doorman Christmas gifts December 12, 2007 04:33PM |
I really do think you need to tip based on how you feel AND what you can afford! My g/f and I bought a co-op in May, and now have to decide what to give. We gave the Super $100 when we moved in to kinda look the other way when we were renovating (not that we did anything wrong), but figured he would have our back if there was a complaint lodged. Since then he has done nothing for us, b/c we have not asked anything. I expect to give him $50. We have 2 full time doormen, one during the days who cares to know our names, make small talk, ALWAYS get the elevator for us, and is actually awake. The second one works an evening shift, barely speaks english (not necessarily a problem though), sleeps often, and gets the elevator (ten feet away) whimsically (60-70% of the time, based upon his mood, I guess). Can you guess who will get the $50 gift, and who will get the $20 gift? Also, we live an a co-op that has about 100 units, and seems to be mostly retired people (fixed incomes). I think we will look generous in comparison to others. If you are looking to get noticed, you can be generous, if you are looking to pass along holidat spirit, give within your means!
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